No nothing was ever done legally with my ex just agreed between us and yes he pays around £850.00 per month for the two children.
I have started divorce proceedings I am just waiting for my ex to pay for the court fees.
My new partner wants nothing from my house and its not him im concerned about, it's my ex im concerned about as I think once he realises my partner is moving in he will try and get more from me than the original 35,000 profit he had when our house was sold, he was very aggrieved that he got so little and I had the majority for my house.
Thanks for your help.
Iv know idea about debt as my ex took care of the monies. He probably had credit cards. He has no mortgage, he rents, he lives with his partner and her son.
Its difficult to know what he earns as he owns his own electrical company, but it must be 50k a year, he's never told me.
I fully expect him to reduce the maintenance I just need to know has he a right to any money in my house.