Hi - thanks for coming back.
The property is in joint names - me and my ex.
It is worth £200k and has £120k outstanding.
No we were not married.
Since becoming self-employed in March 2012 I have paid minimal CSA.
I agreed to pay my ex £782 per month in January 2013 which covers:-
Mortgage - £320 per month
Charlotte University - £200 per month
Charlotte Mobile – Included in above
Phoebe Mobile - £20 per month
Phoebe School Bus / Petrol - £72 per month
Phoebe Shoes / Clothes - £50 per month
Phoebe Pocket Money - £40 per month
Phoebes Counselling - £80 per month
Total - £782 per month
This payment was 'agreed' in order to resolve my ex's money problems and her inability to look after Phoebe (who is now 16 and left school this month)
hope that helps