In responce to your question, no i ma not divorced at all.
Not completly sure of his estate. he lives in a coucil bungalow but pays full rent and only gets his works royal mail pension at present as he is under 60.
but average money in bank of savings is well over £30.000
Im worried come time wont just have to worry about his burial but if the goverment can take charge of his money and than they decide what or who to do with it. Not as he would like at htis moment and time.
So even when been seperated 5yrs or more before he passes on do you think i will have any trouble resolving any issues.
His wishes are for me to deal with it all in relation to his family also.
can you advise me if i wil lneed to do anything to be able to do this peacefully.
I am a bit concerned that his family will try and take over even though he has also told them of his wishes.