he has been living with her for about 3-4 weeks now as her husband only left about 6 weeks ago but he has been have sexual relations with her for about 4-5 months he has had a handful of visits to his son at his parents house he doesn't like going there, In fact he has made arrangements to go and see my son there and then decided not to turn up. or go for a couple of hours and makes his excuses and leaves.
I have also supervised a couple of outings with my ex and our son but my ex has always left early because he has something better to do and is always texting people or talking to them on the phone when he should be paying attention to his son
yes I have considered it but I know my son would not want to be with his dad on his own unless I was there or his nan in the same room as him he doesn't like being with my ex on his own because he still remembers that daddy can be bad. Can he ring the child support though and stop my money if I don't allow him to see my son he says he has spoken to a barrister who says I am in the wrong and he needs to take me to court and to ring the csa to suspend any further payments can he do this
is it advisable that I keep all text messages that I have received from my ex and his new girlfriend some of them are unsavoury to mention also I have an email confirming that he and her would meet me to try and sort something out and so I could meet the new girlfriend and then for them to break the agreement.