Basically our daughter has reportedly been swearing and lashing out, allow on occassions the teachers have let slip about her and another naughty child leading her, but every other time we asked who was around they have stated she was on her own, which we do not beleive because she only gets upset if someone hits her etc.
We know there is a boy in her class who has hit her and called her names, which maybe a trigger.
My wife found two teachers restraining her the other day, legs pinned down and arms pinned down but flat, like a starfish, daughter appeared calm so method was excessive. We think these things have had a negative impact on her.
Also, there is a room the so called naughty children go to, bearing in mind she is only 5, some of the children are much older upto say 10. These have been heard by myself and my wife infront of our daughter saying the F*** and B**** words.
But teachers are blaming our daughter for being disruptive in class and swearing, for which they now blame her for others copying.
They have now referred to Social Services, which we knew nothing about until my wife received a phone call from them saying they are concerned about our childrens sexualised behaviour, my boy aparently has been drawing womans boobs and saying the word virgina, and with my daughter using the F*** word, they seem to have reported this.
But the phone call was quite blunt and to the point pretty much accusing us of sexual abuse.