Thanks for the response.The property is worth £175000 and outstanding on the mortgage is £120000 and there is a second mortgage for £30000.
She is not co-habiting and she only works 16 hrs per week part time as a care worker which is exactly the same as what she did when we were together as we had young children. As soon as the youngest went into full time school though she has continued to work only part time and not looked to go full time which she could have.
After a year of doing this she then decided she wanted to return to studying instead and has now been going to college and has just enrolled for university. This is why we discussed selling the house as I explained I didn't think it seemed fair that I have to stay stuck on the mortgage whilst she studies for another 3-4 years before considering a full time job.
I am not sure what a long stop date would mean all I can recall is that it said she was to use her best endeavours to get me off the mortgage.
I really am at a loss now with all this and feel that if I had known she was going to do this back then I would have never signed to agree to any of it.
Hi, I should have it somewhere at home but not with me right now at work sorry
Hi Clare, I have now got a copy of the order scanned onto my computer. Do you want all 17 pages sending to you ?
Thanks Clare, If you need anything further let me know