If this included as being an answer then we are not going to get very far...
I have separated with the mother of my children and the abuse and use of the children against me is throat slitting, I have tried arranging calls but she is always on the fone telling me I cant speak with my son until ... I have arranged to pick them up tomorrow but she is hell bent on making this difficult.
im not welcome at her house and she isn't welcome at my home but thinks she can attach herself to my arrangement and ties to control me even though we are nothing anymore. so she thinks she is turning up with my boys and I don't want her anywhere near me
In November it will be a year that I've been bending over backwards being good guy and bad ,,, accepting all blame and passing the blame I've done every thing and doesn't matter what i`m the bad one and all i have is where she put me. and she wont even let me recover from that either
ive been trying to do what she wants, come get the boys between kina 10-2000 on a Friday and a sat but keeps bullying me as to why I don't have my boys for more than 24hrs ? ... simple because I have to stay at a fiends house for 2 days to see them and is not suitable for children to stay over as he does not have the room, I now live at my new home where she said she was tring to move with me to on a job promo that I took for my family and now im here trying o get on with being separated and visit the boys and give her money that I don't have and she is calling my accommodation to see if io still live there behind my back and demanding and controlling. I want no more to do with her other than the children but she keeps blocking my calls with my eldest THAT SHE set up months ago and blaming me for it. all I want to do is speak civilly with here as I always do to speak with my boys and / or arrange me having them that she has bullied me to do even though I am in another county still waiting for my family
I cant call my son at the arranged time without her being on the fone giving me orders or abuse. he normally answers the fone but she has a habbit of being on there before I get to speak with him telling me I cant talk to him until I have answered her questions. I don't need to answer her questions we are SEPARATED!!
what time I will get the boys and the time I will return them is all we need to do but she will not stop arguing and telling me what I can or cant do when I have the same rights as her over my children.