He is 6 on August 14th 2014.
He sees his Dad on a very flexible basis - I try and accommodate him - but on average once a week for about 5 hours. There are big gaps in the this when he is away or busy - sometimes he goes 3 weeks between visits. He has him overnight probably once/twice a month (but from evening one day to morning the next).
Hope that helps.
As a note he took him away for two nights a few months ago and Dexter called crying he wanted to come home on the second night and they return early the next day.
They also had him for two nights last month and on the second night Dexter cried and they called his Godfather - my best friend who sees him 4-5 times a week - to come and get him.
I have heard that if I get a sole residency order I can appoint a person to take my PR on my death - therefore meaning my eldest can stay with them?