I have been back since 26th June, my ex will be coming over mid October. My eldest son who will be 14 in November is very much a peace maker and although he doesn`t enjoy going that much he will go to keep the peace and states he will go along with 'whatever you guys can figure out'. My youngest does have a good relationship with his dad and would probably be happy to see more of him. I know in Australia a child's opinion is not taken into consideration until they are 13 yrs old although it is possibly different over here. I also have concerns my 11 yr old still shares his fathers bed when he stays over. Although I don`t feel there is any sort of abuse happening I am just concerned that he is now in high school and it just seems wrong. But I acknowledge that this is possibly a separate issue altogether.
No, I would be fine with midweek contact as well as every other weekend. I just want consistency and for everyone to know where they're up to.