Hi just a quick question re contact orders. I have one for my daughter, which gives me fortnightly contact, dating from 2007. Ex always very difficult, very vicious towards me, even worse at moment as I got married this year, contact stopped for 3 months,our daughter was ill every visit, but I try and keep peace, as contact ok at moment. Our daughter is 12 and even though has a whale of a time here, apparently doesn't want to come.. I get on really well with my daughter, so I'm not worried by this, I genuinely believe pressure is being put on her not to come. My question is about when the contact order expires? My ex has told me that when our daughter turns 13, it's completely up to her when she comes. I'm worried by this, as I thought the order lasted until 16. It is just a standard contact order and never had anything added about this.