She has no pensions but is living with her new man. I have 3 pensions' the first has a valuation of £86,109, the second £39,019 and the third £18,498
She has signed on for jobseekers allowance, I earn basic £23,750 pa and can do regular overtime. I also get DLA for the eldest and youngest children, child tax credit for two children, child benefit for two children and £7 per week child maintenance from my wife.
The children still at home are 19, (unemployed, has ADHD and Dyspraxia leading to major confidence issues, likely to stay with me for many years yet) 16 (in full time education) and 14 (likely to live with me and need me as a carer indefinitely).
She is claiming she is entitled to half the pensions and half of any profit on the house. She wants to use this information to negotiate a deal for money now/in the near future rather than wait for pensions to mature.