Hi Clare, Thanks for your reply. I will do my best to fill you in. My partner left his wife 4 years ago to live with me. Neither of them talked about getting the divorce papers until recently. His ex has always said shes struggling for money, although he left her the house, and he only walked away with the caravan, so he delayed things. He agreed, when they did do the divorce, that he would pay the court fees. He delayed the divorce so long that now shes got the papers, and has put adultery as the reason. He was going to put 2 years separation. She is so adamant that she wants to name and shame me, and to make her feel better. Ive told him to see the papers and to change the reason, but she wont let him now. Shes hounding him for payment, and he feels he has no choice but to pay. Obviously I will get some copies of the papers, as she is naming me as co respondent. Do I have to sign anything, as agreement, or will it all go ahead whether I do or not. I just, personally think, that this is going to get messy.
Thanks for that Clare. Just one question, If my partners ex gets my name wrong on the papers, for example if she doesn't put my middle name, can I refuse to sign it.