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Mediation is now compulsory.
My concern for you is that the Order was made very recently and you will need to show that the change in your circumstances could not have been predicted - and has not been caused by your own actions
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details
Isnt the mere fact that it is a loan which I fully need to pay back on commercial terms sufficient to not have it considered as part of income?
I mean - it is like I would have to share with her the proceeds of a personal loan that I take out