house (flat) is worth around £160k mortagage is around £80K I am self employed HGV driver with income around 16k
No other assets , no pension.
Bank loan £6.5K
Credit cards £9.5k
She does not work or have any income
She does have some jewellery and a fair amount of gold that was given to her by her family but I do not know its value and we have a collection of baby/chidrens clothes which we were planning to ebay which may raise a couple of hundred quid ?
You didn't ask but our daughter is 6 years old and we have been married for 6 years too
We got married just after our daughter was born and prior to her visa for a 6 month stay in the UK running out.
We spoke about divorce before but she became verbally aggressive saying she must get a British Passport and then she would leave.
She got her passport and citizenship and subsequently left.
For my part at least the relationship was genuine from the start but as I am sure you can understand I am now doubting her true motivation and very worried that she is only returning to the UK to take everything that she possibly can from me.
I have been sending money to her monthly (more than the average monthly wage) and I know that she has been studying a vocational course out there and I see no reason for her to do that if she wasn't planning a long term future there
PS , Our Daughter speaks Russian with very limited English (also her Mums choice ! ) which also suggests no genuine plan to settle in the UK and she completely refuses to have anything to do with other members of my family ( parents , children from my first marriage) or any of my friends and trys to stop me from seeing any of them too !