Hi Claire, my ex partners results for drug and alcohol have been received and it shows positive for cocaine and cannabis. he was above the cut off. however the court had ddirected him 3 months and he only did one months test. we have hearing on the 18 November. I have a caff cass visit booked based on his drug results and also I understand he is leading a dangerous lifestyle as he has loansharkers involved with him. I understand he had to close his garage and police were called . due to this can I suggest no contact plus the fact he tells my daughter at her visits her ears are dirty. he is putting her down now.it has been 5 months and his behavior is not calming down if anything he is getting worse. I recemntly rcved his solicitor letter saying that when he calls my daughter once a week we have the tv on loudblast but that is a lie and now he is putting that blame on my partner of the tv but my dad gets my daughter to call him every Wednesday due to court order and there is no tv or my partner and I am at work
can there be a possibility of no contact. I have always promoted contact at the contact centre. but his behavior is being so negative towards my daughter and it has been 5 months. with his history is it likely he can get no contact or would it be highly likely it wil be supervised at contact centre.I know courts don't like no contact. but his police record shows gbh on a 14 year old few years ago
if this no contact goes thrugh would it be for life???