I am a british citizen and so is he. He earns about 90K (60K + 30 bonus) a year, is supporting his still wife who he also has a child with. He never divorced her though he said he would. he has a boat worth 50-60K and a house which is ex is getting and a savings which the ex is getting. We have two cars one which is not paid off yet. and live in a rented house.
our child is 14 months. I have him on birth certificate and signed papers from germany where our boy was born saying thAT he agrees to joint custody and if he left me that he would pay for maintenance and child care but do not think these are valid in uk.
I hope to start work in next 2-3 weeks in a good job.