basically I would like my ex to respect my decision. If I raised my concern about introducing a new partner to my daughter was because of advised I received from a psychologist and from what I read on the internet. Unfortunately I feel this set a precedent of lack of respect and I want to make sure future decision are followed. Just to make things clear I too have a new partner but we both decided to wait at least 1 year to introduce her to my daughter.
Another concern I have with my ex is her binge drinking which I feel can be endangering my daughter safety when with her.
The answer I've received from my wife are downright ridiculous. She said I was shouting on the phone,which i think is a more than understandable reaction since i was in another country and unable to do anything and she also told me her parents told her would be ok to introduce her new partner without my approval. For the record she is 40 years old and I'm 43...
To sum up if I go to mediation I like to have a good argument to make sure this kind of thing do not happen any more.