The court order does not give an end date, it says "during our joint lives or until further order"
It does say the property should be for use as a home for herself.
I would argue however that if she is now living with another person who will almost certainly be contributing to the household expenses, my contribution should cease
The divorce was final in July 2002, however she applied for the divorce before the pension rules changed in 2001 so she could not share my pension (Army) as a right but it was taken into account as part of my income
(A) Is it likely that the court would agree to a variation and/or (B) what would happen if I just stopped paying the maintenance