CAFCASS were not involved in June as I was agreeable as to the father seeing his children again. Morgan the 4 year old saw his father one afternoon, Willow (2) was in Addenbrooks hospital with a asthma attack. But, soon after that the threatening phone call from the girl friend. All contact was stopped as I worried for the children.This was overlooked by the magistrates and the court order was enforced. I am now in breach of the court order and facing prison. I spoke to CAFCASS they are going to try and help. They are going to be at the court on Thursday.
yes, but only when the children would have felt comfortable and it was thought that a couple of months would have been sufficient. Then the threatening call.
I offered Saturday 9am to 7 to 8pm sat and Sunday again 8, 9am to 5pm. thus allowing the children to re connect with the family and the father, as long and more contact if need be in between. This has been turn down today by the family (plenty of money) and by the magistrate's court.
Sorry to say but the Magistrates are from the old world, all grey heads and do not seem to relate to today's needs. We are lost as to what to do! The children will be totally upset, the 2 year old does not know her father and will be distraught. On the 12th of this month, Friday, we are to hand over 2 children, who will be totally lost, on Tesco's car park in Haverhill Suffolk at 5pm on Friday to Sunday 5pm. Are we living in a third world country! THIS IS CRUEL Should we advise the newspapers. Would it help!