we left in September of this year after he announced he had been having an affair since xmas 2013 have said to him it is too soon for the children to meet her and to stay overnight in her house while he sleeps with her the are confused and insecure as it is as he also tells them that he still loves me and in their little minds they think it will all be alright and daddy will come home she also has a young son and they cant understand why he has taken their daddy from them they are showing signs in their behavior my daughter has taken to sleep walking and my son is often withdrawn and very quite my x partner denies any of this is down to him and he threatens me using financial support as his weapon he has told me that all he is obliged by law to pay is 260 pounds a month for both children and this will happen as he needs money to start up with his new family he currently pays 450 pounds to help pay back loans that we took out together but because he is unable to get credit in his own name due to previous county court judgments i feel that i have no rights at all legally and i am being punished when all i did was love him can you help in any way do i have any rights.
Iam not marred. My ex partner earns £22,000 year.
The loan is for a car £145 per month repay This will end in August 2015.
I have the car now
The house is in my name, I pay the mortgage he payed half, 10 years left to finish. House insurance is £55 per month.
The car is in my name. I Will now list Items Payed out per week.
All items are as a guide only and in pounds.
After school club=76.50
Provident loan= 89
Garage ( separated from house)=70
At time of writing all correct!
It is'nt me that wants the children to meet his new partner it is him, i don't want this to happen at all. He currently pays some bills each month which add up to £456. that is all he pays, the rest i have to find out of my wages and some tax credits I receive. I have asked him not to introduce this woman to the children, as i do not consider her to be a good role model and influence in the children's life, i feel this will complicate things further for the children and they are already affected badly by this situation.