assuming the drink report comes back well and i have booked the course how to i ppolitelty say to caf cass pls can i see my daughter now ?
i understand this but my relationship with who ? my daughter or the mother ? I lived with the mother for 4 years and was a father to my child and her other child , the alegations she has made are untrue, caf cass are now looking at her and have mentioned bi pola , and concerned with her violence against me i have scars on my face and hard evidence i have now presented them with i will accept any contact greatfully , but surely if her allegations are proven untrue why a contact center ?
i realise this is not about what is fair but surely i have a right to question why a contact center when i have looked after them on my own many times
she has also been reported to sservices as she hits the children when she blacks out (not by me) but i have now spoken with them too and has a history until i met her i did not , what i am trying to say is i think i have grounds to challenge her (not caff cass) jump through hoops for them and be greatfull for what i get i know
ahh i see yes absolutely a contact center would be great while matters are resolved , i mis understood obviously at court (assuming caf cass give me a favourable report) i can ask for more than a contact center
yes i have admitted to useing drugs once or twice , they seem to be focused on alchahol though as i have said im 99 % certain the alchahol result will be favourable , best wait ubtil then and assume i am then in a lot stronger position
my ex has also lied to the court and lied to caf cass and the caf cass officer told me that and took text messages off me
if i was offered 30 mins in the meantime i would grab it with both hands
Ok thankyou after the alchahol test i said i would ring him (even if it comes back bad)
in the last 3 months i reckon i have benn out maybe 10 times i will prob have drunk 8 pints or so will i pass ?
i assume i will be above the "recomended" limit but not at alchaholic limit i weigh 14 stone
thinking back i have allready wrote a letter saying happy fpr contact at a contact center at my parents etc so have given many options but maybe i need to just re inforce that hopefully with a "good" alchahol test
sorry the typing is in bold not sure how that has happened
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