have already done this with one of your experts but if u cannot access,not married, finished 2012, cohabiting since then, unpredictable verbal abuse, my final straw summer 2014, moved out sept 19th to rental in nearby town, by using tax credits and housing benefit. currently parttime re my youngest, 23 hours a week, gross currently 25,000 a year. mortgage too big, at 190,000. have been paying interest on;y. girls are 9 and 14. now feel clear that in addition to moving out, I now need to try for the house so that youngest can stay at same school and so they both still have their house. This year tried to do mediation, tried to get him out etc etc, verbal rude reply from him at every request to change living arrange,ments. was left with no option but to move out as my anxiety levels too high.