We have lived together years this year. There are no children involved. We both own the property and he demands that I leave because he wants to as he says 'have his life back' - difficult to have a decent discussion or conversation with him.
i'm not completely sure how much this property is worth but i know the amount outstanding is 137k (interest only mortgage). Assets - husband has his car (i do not drive). Debts - I have about 5k in credit cards. Husband has a debt of about 15k. Incomes of us 42k husband and 40k . There is no particular reason to go, I pay all the bills. Our relationship after 30 years in our case has gone. Cant see a recovery as he gets very angry.
I have suggested that but he moves out but he won't hear of it.
Best guess would be 230k (a maisonette quite big with quite a big garden). He will not put it on the market.
No but I have suggested a separation agreement but unable to discuss as he becomes angry and aggressive
He has so unable to have a decent discussion
The last time was 2012
No I didn't report it.
No violence in the last 6 months
Thanks your help - much appreciated. Hoping things would get better but I know my husband will not seek mediation. He is now being intimidating and threatening towards me wanting me out of the marital house but in a very scary manner. Not sure what to do.