My partner says I've got leave our home that we both own and live in with his children 16yrs & 13yrs when I have done nothing wrong. Can he do this?
The house was originally mine. Steve moved in with his children in 2005 I still have a daughter who lives here on and off she is 21yrs. The house is worth approx £480.000 there is £194.000 owing. We are both joint on the deeds. We have a business together Castleland Leisure Ltd. We both earn £12000 per year. Steve has mentally abused me for years so much so that I made him go to the Dr's with me. Where he admitted being a bastard to me and didn't no why he did this. They sent him to a phycologist and put him on anti- depressants. He didnt continue with any of the treatment. And continued to be a bully. Some of the things he says to me are vile. And some of his action are unacceptable. I've never been able to leave due to family commitments and money. His son has been chucked out of two schools and now in a bad boys school and his daughter doesn't want to do anything other than lay in bed all day. She quit college. And now waiting to see if an apprenticeship will except her. I can not cope with living with this aggressive mental man anymore. I will be grateful for any advice. Thankyou so much. I'm under the Dr now with high blood pressure.
He was living in his house with his children. Sold his house. We had to use his money to have a loft conversion put on my house to accommodate his children. Which cost 40k and 15k settlement to my ex husband. I think at the end of the day I had put about 50k more in the house. But just to make things easy I manage to get my ex husband off the deeds and his name put on them. He drove both my children out. I get on really well with his. Thanks Clare
In the same area it would be £250k. The Mum lives 15 mins away and has a 3 bedroom house. The children both have there own rooms there. Plus the Mum has to come this way every morning as she works just down the road. She originally left the children for a toy boy. They were trying for a baby but because she wasn't able to fall pregnant because of her age.... he left her. She left her children when they were just 4 & 7 both just starting new schools at the time.
No they used to live with Mum and Dad but she left when the children were 4 & 7 yrs. He stayed in his own house until they sold it and then moved in with me.
No we are not married.
I'm happy to sell as would like my money so I can support myself and my daughter.
Thankyou Clare. Do you think that there is anyway he would get a larger share because of the ages of the children. We have made a will. Which states that if anything happened to the other one the one left would inherit everything. Not sure whether that's of any relevance. Steve has smashed things up in the home and been mentally abusive on a daily basis. Says the most vilest things a human could possibly say. Where do I stand with this regarding his mental health behaviour. He is two different people. I have to do reverse psychology to keep him calm. But I just can't take this no more. Thankyou so much for your time
Is there anywhere that could confirm whether or not he would be entitled to more. Just worried that I may lose some of my equity? I do agree the children aren't my responsibility. Thanks sorry for all the questions Clare. I'm just looking for peace of mind.
I will check that website out, thanks. So if we were to split it equally there wouldn't be a problem? I will definitely requesting you again that's forsure as have a lot more separate issues coming up.