We are not married and my son's birth was registered before PR was given automatically [1.12.2003].
We are not married and my son was born [10.07.2002] before PR started to be given automatically which was 1.12.2003.
We are not married and my son was born 10.7.02 before PR was given automatically - which was 1.12.2003.
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He is on the birth certificate. We have no mediation dates yet. He seems to want to move out soon.
No contact arrangements have been made but, even though he works in a different town and travels a lot he says he wants 50/50 [co-parenting], his words.
I don't know, he tends to want to have everything his way and under his control, but he said this morning: "If I leave and take the children with me it will be a matter of safety, I will not be able to administer medicine, or authorise a Doctor to give treatment".
This is when I told him it is something we could deal with in mediation.
Previously said, we have no dates yet. Will be able to set up some soon I think.
I think he is trying to manipulate me and I wanted to know that it is an issue that can be sorted out after he moves out. I think we could arrange an interim contact schedule if he moves before mediation starts.
The children are 11 & 12 I think he'd have trouble trying to take them, they are terribly fair minded.
But there one previous time we separated for a short time; he locked me out of the house with the children, his sister and a friend inside, so I had to get the Police to tell him to let me in. Just after that he also literally screwed [with screws] up the back door because he couldn't find the key. He's already taken £21,000 out of our mortgage reserve just over a week ago so he is unpredictable.