The reason why I continued to let her take the takings is because i trusted her to continue paying the bills as i have been married to her yrs and used to be a very loving mother to our boys. She was paying buisness bills from her personal acccount, when i was asked to leav e in september i froze the business account allthough she had took all the money and put it in her personal account so i could not gain access to money, we have just stopped her from taking any more money, as it now appears she has not been paying the bills and running up hugh arrears, She still refuses to give us access to the acounts and refuses to show me her personal account statement.
It was through trust and her honesty i didn't think to mention or question her. She has also been taking the post last 4 months, including mine, so we have no idea to what is going on.
she is refusing to account money she has been taken. She had given up her right to carry on working at the pub in December, 2014 but continued to take the takings first thing in the mornings before anyone was up and about and leave before anyone would see her.
i am not in a position to issue divorce proceedings, allthough i would like a divorce. i have no money to do this.
we are trying, however she has control of accounts, we are inentrsepting mail now. i have not been able to see bank account from september due to her clearing buisness account and putting monies into her pesonnal account, been told i cant see her account which holds buisness monies. feel hands are tied .
we have now stopped her taking the takings but not sure what has been or not been paid. am i still liable bills and debts since september. police say she can take the takings when she wants as it is her buisness as well as mine.
the buisness account is in joint names however she took monies out of that account and opened an account in her name only, ive not had site of those statements or access to the buisness monies she deposits in her account . she withdrew 1000 pounds to open her account.