The flat was bought at 150,000 pound a couple of years ago and the out standing must be about 120,000 pound now. I don't know if shouting at me and locking me in the room qualifies as physical violence. His biggest weapon is money. He uses money to control me.
I was living alone in London not far from where we live now. Then got pregnant and had to move in.
Many thanks helpful response. I however do not understand when you say "If you separate then you will be entitled to child maintenance at 16% of your gross income". Did you mean of his income or my income? I am little confused.
Also is the child maintenance in addition to housing the kids? Would he have to continue paying the mortgage and bills? If he can cover those basics I can look money to feed the kids. Its really expensive especially with childcare costs when i go to work. Plus nappies and formula etc.
I will research into getting legal aid but if I am turned down how much do you think it would cost me to get legal representation privately? I just need a rough estimate. Also if the case goes against him would he be obliged to put me back legal costs? Thanks so much help.
Will the payment be per child?
Thank you so much. You have been extremely helpful. I am going to click on rate to finish but is it ok if I contact you again incase i have question? It may not happen but just incase.