the social services funded the application in 2007 for a residence order as to the police when they have brought him home they have talked to him re his behaviour but nothing more. there is no S20 agreement
they were at the meetings.
also on friday the 27/02/2015 there was a tac meeting and i had informed the school where the meeting was to be held that i would be unable to attend 26/02/2015.
the meeting did take place only with 2 new social workers who again did not bring any of the previous caf forms. when i was given this information by the school i asked why new social workers and was informed that the other two social workers who were due to attend were attending an emergency. as a result of this meeting ( to date i have still not been contacted by either the two new social workers or the two previous social workers as to the outcome of the meeting) my son i have been informed by the school will go to one sisters for his tea another sisters for his sleep and his non-biological grandmother for the weekend.
i asked as to thecouncilling or angermanagement for my son which i was told by the school that my son did not want to engage as he beleaves he has no issues. when i asked whether it had be brought up re his language and re the young girl. i was told that they did not bring it up in the meeting as it may embarrass him.i was also told that another outcome was for the social workers to look for a house so that he could go back to live with his mother. i am really struggling to understand the rational behind this. I also took my son to football last night and he said that the social workers had told him at the meeting that when they had talked to his mother and sister as to why he originally came to live with myself and partner that myself and my partner had differing views as to why it happened. i tried to explain that i did not understand why they said that as it was not an opion as to why he and his sisters came to live with us but as a result of social workers entering the house and finding evidence and that i was contacted as a result of this. he disagreed and said his mother said the house was fine.
As another point when his mother came to live in stockport after the children came to live with us in 2007 the house that she moved into had to be repossed by the housing association for non payment of rent and that the house was in a very similar state of repair as the previous dwelling.
please could you advise me of opitions as i do not know where to turn
I want him to come back to myself and kelly (my partner), with the correct type of support (anger-management, councilling, self-esteem sessions and self-awareness sessions) for him in place and for him to be utilising this support with set guidelines so there are no grey areas. This also includes boundaries that are in place and supporting networks for accessing information that is relavent to him.
If this was able to be put in place,then for Daniel to be placed in a school that specailises in working with children who have the issuses that Daniel has and for this to be boarding if at all possible to maintain the continuity of care and support for Daniel with him being able to have access to his family.
running out of options as i also have to think of the other children. alternative would be for Daniel to stay with his older sister, mother, or for me to get a house and let ***** *****ve with me this would mean me spllitting up from my partner and seeing my other children on a limited basis.
only other option for me to ask for Daniel to be placed into foster care.
i cantplace him with my other relatives as they have all retired and are all in their 60s.
i dont know of any other options