Hi Clare, The house is worth £240,000 and we owe around £40,000 which is very sad, would have been mortgage free in 4 years. We both earn £500 per week Net. My Ex pays for mortgage and bills and I pay for anything for the boys, holidays, carpets, decorating and furniture, washing machines, fridges etc.
Thanks for getting back to me.
Hi Clare yes the business is worth £60,000 but I do not want to sell that because I started it up. Started on markets and I have grown it into what it is today, Neal joined me because he was unhappy as a sales rep and Neal is a partner although I work probably 70 hours a week and he works around 30 hours. But I want to deal with the business separately. I just want to know where I stand the house. It is up for sale but could take 3 years to sell and me and my boys do not want him here anymore and no-one can believe that we are still living and working together, although divorced and he has another woman. It's very hard .
I've not really looked into that, breaking my heart leaving the home lived there for 17 years but I think myself and boys want a brand new start, everything would remind us of the past. But if I chose to do that would I have to pay him half??
Thank you, ***** ***** not have him leave on emotional violence because that's been the problem throughout our lives, the boys are very scared of him and always have been (which I feel guilty for now, but I just wanted the marriage to work). He is very manipulative and in the divorce papers I described him as a Jekyll and Hyde character. Up at the top and hyper or down below and brings everyone else down with him. Because things are not working out now with his new lady, my boys and I are getting the brunt of it all. It's making me poorly to be honest.
Many thanks for your help, I really appreciate it.