Hello I am Judith and I have been having some issues over children contact with my ex -husband for nearly two years now. After making several allegations to the police and the social services to undermine my ability to look after the children; such as child neglect allegations, sexual abuses (saying I have mutilated my daughter), all were dismissed. he had been consistently harassing and pestering me through texts, emails, verbal abuses. I got a non-molestation order which he constantly breach and the police cannot prosecute due to lack of evidence yet again. The court requested the children's passport to be sent to court pending a section 7 report. meanwhile contact is at a contact centre but not fully supervised with my ex husband. he uses the session to question the children what I do and who come and go from the house. he tells them that I will hurt them or any other man who isn't their father, he also tell them that they shouldn't be listening to me and only listen to him. the children seem quite confuse and distress before and after each contact. I do not know how to handle the situation and fear that it might affect them in the long run. he discharged the anger address to me on the children and the children discharged them on me. how could I legally handle the situation? thank you
although I filed for a C2 Variation to raise concern over the fact that he keeps breaching the terms of the court orders, the judge just re- explain the terms to him and that he should obey them.
also with the situation at present, how much right does he have at turning up at places where he knows I will be? such the children's school, the children's activities club, and moving closer to where I live.