Sorry my life is a little busy at the moment.
We were married for 22 years, debts 24,000, none of the debts were dealt with in the divorce I was left with it all, the court did say I can have 4,500 back from the mortgage arrears which I have to pay ( total was 9,000). We have 3 children the youngest is now 18 , at the time of separation she was 11.Divorce was complete Jan 2011. Assets are my pension , NHS and he got 88,000 of that, House, just valued by his solicitor ( who is also his neice) at 225,000. My income now is poor in that I have only 2 days employment that is permenant, only 9,000 per year, the rest is a fluctuating amount following redundancy. He is self employed and his income was declared as similar to mine then ( which was 40,000 before tax)
I have to respond to a threatening letter quoting the wrong mortgage amount , a request for £35 % of the wrong amount left which the solicitor says is £34,000, unwilling to acqnowledge any debt or his responsibility in the paying back arrears. The letter is also marked without predjudice.
Have to respond by Saturday, letter is dated 27th Feb, I got it on 4th March. They are threatening court action. I am terrified.