I think it is just to meet with a woman that my wife au paired with 25 years ago as my boys have 2 weeks Easter holidays at the end of this month.
I don't want them to go at all and she (my wife) is saying she can just take the boys from our family home and go even if I don't agree with it.
I don't quite know where I stand !
Currently we are still married and all live in the same family home but behind the scenes now the boys are a getting older it seems we may be separating.
I don't seem to have heard anything did my reply reach you ok?
I have e mailed twice now and don't seem to have had a response and the issue is quite pressing
can you confirm receipt of my response and a time line in regards ***** ***** response
We are currently still married and all still live in the family home my fear is that my wife will try and take our children without my permission.
I don't know if she can or indeed if she needs visas for her and the boys but I would like to know where I stand as their father if I don't want them to go
Can she just take them ?
Hope to her further
Even though we are still married ?she can take them without my permission then?
What is the court and how do I do that- the main reason I don't want her to take then is because I think they (The US women and my wife) are planning to divorce me and then take our children to the US permanently!
No she has a British passport
And not a lot to support the fear- apart from certain "innuendoes" made when arguing maybe just being paranoid and if she can take them in any case there does not seem a lot I can do about it.
The US lady is I am told very wealthy 67 year old and after 20 years out of my wife's life came back into it via a chance face book encounter last July and things have spiralled out of control ever since that point and now my wife's appears to be planning this trip. It is not actually openly discussed that is my worst fear and I was just seeing if she has the right to take our children if I don't want them to go ?
Thank you Clare
as I said we are currently still married (so not my ex) quite like the family counselling idea where does one go for that / arrange for that to happen?
Thank you for your assistance re my wife taking our children to the US as you are aware it is against my wishes and as the income earner I am not willing to pay for it however over the years I have purchased quite a few valuable jewellery items and I believe she is looking to sell these items to the American lady to pay for the trip and transfer the extra funds into her own bank account. Can she do that?