the house is worth approx 125K with 110K outstanding with 4.5k arrears
there are no assets and i am currently self employed/agency earning approx 2K per month. my ex is unemployed and has been unable to look for work for over a year due to a car accident knocking her spine out of alignment. i do not know what her income is but i would hazard a guess at approx 1200
the children are 15, 14, 11 and i am currently only allowed to see them every other sunday. the 2 younger children are aspergers sufferers hence i do not wish to cause to much upheaval. i only see my older child as the younger do not want to leave their mother for reasons unknown although i believe that their mother has had words with them regarding my new wife
no i dont have the funds to do that and i dont think she would not give up her share of the house
can i get control of the house and custody of my children. their mother could live with her parents not to far away and i could move in with my new family, thus keeping the house and avoiding repossession or does my ex have the upper hand in being there and forcing a repossession and forcing the council to house her and the children whereever they can
none but she has said that if she loses the house she will claim it from me which is another reason i want to take house and custody of kidsd
i am paying 375 out of 745
if the house was sold would she be able to be rehoused by the council or would they say she has given up a house and is therefore not eligable?
so if i tell her we have to sell the property she can go to her local housing office to be rehoused and they will have to do this?
she has told me she has seen a solicitor, cab and housing office and been told that if she sells the property she will not be rehoused as she has given up a home
i would prefer to sell than have it repossessed