with the older children is states that since he has married he only wants to be with the child that they have I know this is not true since he calls them every week but she doesn't answer the phone I have been there to see for myself
My son moved to go to college and she did not agree with the move but he did would go to Manchester to see the kids and he was refused access .. Because he had the third child
There was concern about the safety of his son and my son challenged the family (her family and had social services involved) since then we have not had been allowed to have the children ... I have been told that both the children had mental health issues and were visiting the mental health team
Again my son was blamed for this but by this time he had moved...She felt that he did not contribute to the welfare of the children.. But he did ... It was just that I went because every time he tried to make a visit he could not go or she would start shout and swearing and so to stop the confrontation in front of the children my son would give me the money and I would go ...
Social services didn't do anything much.. I was told but could not confirm that the children went on the child protection - Not sure if they were CAF or a full order...
But I am aware that my grand son never really says anything any more and we never really (I would say push) for him to say anything.. Just due to the fact that if we get any contact we don't really want to upset or stop the visit or give her a reason to stop the visit
I know that the last time his father was allowed to see him he had said that he wanted to live with him but we again don't want to cause an issue..
When I am going they cry ...But our hands are tied and so we just say and do nothing ... we just want to see the children
No.. Social service had not given him much information.. He had said that they thought that my grand son was lying but he was not, not if you know him..
he had started a few times once she got the letter she would allow access but then would stop.. Then he would say it would not be good for the children to see him taking their mother to court so he didn't complete..
I will discuss with my son and see what he say
I will try the mediation and see what happens
But if nothing changes then I will try and see if I can get something legal.
Again thank you for your advice