I used my computer too much and neglected him and had a boyfriend all allegations untrue .
He now has liver disease through his drinking ...this man even raped me while drunk ...I was too traumatized to report it to the police but it is on record with my doctor .
yes he is ...I cannot afford one ..
No this is not a money issue it is the principle of his lies about me .
How do I respond to this?
There is a mandatory 5 years ...but we have only been apart 3 years ...the judge has written to me stating there is nothing I can do but let this go ahead as we have been separated 5 years but I have proof it is 3 years.
I received the divorce petition from the courts it stipulated 5 years and my ex's reasons for grounds for divorce ...I replied back on the petition it was not 5 years and stated that all that was said was lies ...
The petition was then given to the judge to decide who wrote back rather curtly that there was nothing I could do as it had been 5 years we had been separated and the divorce on my ex grounds would go through because of the 5 years ...
We claimed Social Security together lived together up until 3 years ...the Police were called as he was violent and would be told to leave the house for the evening this was up until just over 3 years ago ...we were living together as man and wife ...
About months ago ..I wrote back last week ....it did not stipulate the grounds only that I was in a relationship my estranged husband told me that he had also filed that I he had filed for unreasonable behaviour as I used a computer
No I filled in the part I needed to and returned it ...asking would I be represented by a Solicitor and anything further I wanted to add?
I added that is was not 5 years as stated and that he had been unreasonable through his Alcoholism .
I stated that all that was said was untrue.
this is the form I was sent
1st box and last box
I have no choice but let my extremely abusive ex lie about me and how long we have been apart I cannot afford £245 ...weather this divorce will be legal in the eyes of the law I do not know ...he has lied on oath about the time span ...there is nothing I can do but thank you so much for your help