No mortgage we sold the house and then brought the bungalow we now live in for £125,000 2 years last October.
I trusted him he deals with all the financial business for the two of us. We don't have a joint account anymore , because when we did, he said I overspent.
Yes I do , as I may have said this is my second marriage I have tried talking to him and have written down in a letter trying to illustrate how I feel about this situation. He is a very kind and generous man except when it comes to his son, who he sees as a hardworking family man but views my daughter and her husband as spoilt and selfish and even though I love my daughter I can see he has a point. But I have four grandchildren and I would like to leave something if at all possible for them.
I will get the use of the house until my death if My Husband dies before me but I have health issues and I worry that I will need support or have to go into a care home.