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Kasare, Solicitor
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Ive been divorced from my wife years, however she still

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Ive been divorced from my wife for 6 years, however she still insists on telling me what I should do but this is done indirectly. To begin with she can call or text my phone, but blocks my number so that I can't respond, but then verbally abuses me for not getting back to her if she leaves a voice-mail. She has been to her solicitor many times and had them write me warning letters as a result of actions that have never taken place or complete miss-representation of the truth. She has told lies to people about me which has had the consequences of people knocking my door threatening to beat me up. Then also she tells schools and councillors that she is going to get Childrens services onto me in respect of allegations that are fictional to say the least. I just want her to stop contacting me anfd leave me alone. How can i enforce this?
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Clare replied 2 years ago.
Hi
Thank you for your question and for asking for me
I will do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
What does she actually ocntact you about - and how old are the children?
Clare
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

Telling me what sacrifices I should make and how I should spend my time with the Children, and then continues to ask for more money from me but is aggressive towards me if I have to work late or some weekends just to ensure I can earn more money.

The children are 10 and 18

Expert:  Clare replied 2 years ago.
HI
What contact do you have with your youngest child?
Is there any reason why she actually needs to speak to you ?
Clare
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

I have the youngest every other weekend from 4pm Friday to 4pm Sunday.

In addition she stays overnight each & every Tuesday.

There is no reason to contact me, hence why I want the contact and her expression of opinions and threats and requests for more money to stop.

Expert:  Clare replied 2 years ago.
Hi
Have you changed your telephone number?
Clare
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

I haven't, if I did change the number she would obtain it from my daughter anyway

Expert:  Clare replied 2 years ago.
Hi
Have you tried blocking her number from your phone (sorry I do have to ask)
Clare
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

I have, but she then uses with-held numbers or the childrens handsets to get to speak to me

Expert:  Clare replied 2 years ago.
Hi
How many times has she contacted you in the last month?
Clare