The kids are nearly 18, 15, 8 years old.
We are staying at least half an hour away by taxi, with absolutely no intention of meeting up with kids.
Since my first message the eldest daughter has emailed her father telling him that they have no problem with this at all and in fact find it incredibly upsetting the way he is behaving. The fact his solictors letter states that i am not considering the children and that it is unsettling for them is quite clearly based on lies, the only thing unsettling them is thier father resorting to solictors. (sorry about the rant)