Hi they agreed together that the house would be paid off and signed over to her (my partner has already paid the mortgage off but not sign the title forms for the house until the divorce is settled) he also agreed she could keep the jaguar (family car) he is paying for his sons school fees and also pays 1000 per month maintenance for the 2 children. On top of this he does also pay out for school trips/holidays etc. Up until April this year he worked about 5 weeks and was home 3 weeks. He got to see the children for the weekends he was home. However the job he now has means he lives abroad permanently and has to book holiday (which he dosnt get paid for so meaning we are short on our monthly income) he hasnt seen his children since april and is trying desparetly to get dates from his ex wife to be able to bring his children out here where he lives during the summer holidays. She however will not co-operate. she keeps saying shes still making her plans and he will hear from her solicitor which never happens!! he speaks with his children at least once a week via skype although they do this when his ex is not around as they children feel this is neccessary :( both parties wanted the divorce and infact my partner wanted to start the proceeding but she rushed straight to a solicitor to get in first. She was happy with what they agreed financially (she works full time herself so has her own decent income plus obviously no mortgage etc and maintenance) however since the decree nisi was granted on 24th March this year she will not sign the decree absolute application and says she is entitled to more financially!! (the house alone is worth 225k) We have realised my partner can this month apply for the decree abolsute himself due to the length of time she has left this however on reading about the process it says a court date is set which he would have to attend. As he is abroad this is almost impossible :( what can we do finalise the divorce and more importantly arrange proper times for him to spend with his children as this is breaking his hear
please could you respond quickly as this is quite urgent
Im very confused by your response?? you start off by saying nothing can be done about the decree absolute or the children unless MY EX???? is prepared to comit to a court application. What do you mean? as per the details I have provided it is my partners ex wife that is delaying the decree absolute and wanting more financially and causing the child contact problems. Are you saying my partner needs to comit to a court application or his ex wife??
Are you also saying if he gets a solicitor the court may deal with the decree absolute application and child contact order via a phone call?
He has email correspondence between him and his ex wife agreeing to the financial details prior to her now wanting more. Will these emails suffice to show what agreement was made before the Decree Nisi was granted by the court?
Please clarify these points