I am polish and has been living in UK since 2003. I have a child age 3 who holds British passport. I planned to go to my homeland for 2 months for Summer to visit my mum who is seriously ill and spend some quality time there with my son who is in touch with his grandmother since he was born. Recently out of the blue i received a court papers regarding hearing and my ex who has not been in touch for last 5 months placed an application for contact asking court to block my movements as i could abduct the child. I did not have this intention, however i am not able to go on holiday to visit my mother. Is there anything i could do to change this at the next hearing what will take a place on Tuesday 16th June. Is it not like braking my human rights for free movement? Can this order be relaxed so I can travel to Poland with my child to spend holiday with my family? What could i say to the judge to get the permission for this holiday? I am representing myself at the court. I went for a legal advice and i was informed this order is unlikely to be relaxed until the case will be closed, then i have to each time ask my child's father for permition if would like to travel to Poland. I do not understand this i have done nothing wrong, i feel like being treated as a criminal for nothing. The child is reside with me. Father is named on the birth certificate. do i really have to ask my ex every time i want to take my son to a trip for his permition? Is there anything i could do i do not know maybe an order put in place so i do not have to seek this permition from my ex?