Probably another 17 years left to pay. Property is worth probebly £120k.
Girls are 7 and 4. Court order sets out that I have them week 1 Wed after school until Fri drop at school and week 2 Fri after school until Mon drop at school. I also have 3 weeks in summer hols, 1 week at easter and 1 week at Xmas. Half term are then every other one they are with me.
Why is the expectation that i have to pay for their mothers home and also my home!? I pay monthly for the children, pay half the mortgage and pay to rent a house. How, in the eyes of the law, am i supposed to provide a future for myself, my children and a new relationship if i am still paying for my past for another 13 years!?
My ex doesn't even communicate with me, so mediation would be a waste of time.
What will happen if i refuse to pay the mortgage?
If she doesn't pay the mortgage then I may then have a bad credit reference. Can the mortgage company take me to court for non payment?
What reason should i provide in the letter for not paying? Could my ex then use this in court?
If i stop paying the mortgage, do i lose my 50% share of profits from the house if its sold?
do i have a legal right to know who lives there and if it is being used for business use? By law should i also be provided with a set of keys, as the locks have been changed?
How do i get round coming off the mortgage after this stage?
Do i inform the mortgage company?