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I have a 13 year old step daughter from my wife's previous

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I have a 13 year old step daughter from my wife's previous relationship, where my wife never lived or cohabited with her ex partner. The ex partner sees his daughter fortnightly, but has never paid anything towards her upbringing but now what's to be involved with her schooling. She has gone to private school from the age of 3, & still attends one now 10 years later. This has cost us a lot of money to give her the best, ***** ***** now wants be involved but we don't want that. What rights do we have, as our daughter does not want him at school.
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Family Law
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
We give my wife's ex partner a copy of all our daughters headteacher report sternly, but he have received no comments from those reports from him. Our daughter has sent a txt to her father in her own words, stating she doesn't want to sleep over or go away on holiday with him & his girlfriend & doesn't want he attending any school functions. As this may cause people to talk at school, which is very good & stable.
Expert:  Thomas Judge replied 1 year ago.
In what way involved?
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Go to parents evenings, concerts, open days & open evenings at school
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
We pay at lot of money for private school, & he has never contributed or taken an interest till now
Expert:  Thomas Judge replied 1 year ago.
The difficulty you have I am afraid is that as he will also share parental responsibility then he will be allowed in law to attend these things so long as he is not a risk to the child's safety.
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Your saying a person who has never contributed to his daughters upbringing has these rights, & he has now decided to get involved more in her life, although she doesn't want the involvement with him.
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Please respond to the last reply so we can meet him tomorrow & speak with a clearer understanding of our rights with regard to the situation
Expert:  Thomas Judge replied 1 year ago.
Strictly speaking in law I am afraid that he does have these rights - it should be handled sensitively but yes under the Children Act 1989 he does have these rights.Happy to discussPlease rate positively
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