This is my intention. I know what I am supposed to pay (£1018 per month). In previous mediation sessions I thought around £1000 was fair (at the time) but she also wants payment for half of school things, holiday cover while she works etc - this would amount to much more that £1018 per month.
I have also agreed and she has accepted half of the equity in our house. I have owned the house in my name (after buying my own house at 18, now 44) so always kept it in my single name. She has never paid a penny to mortgage or bills and has only ever paid for food (£600 per month) while earning £3000 per month - should I also challenge the money and where it has gone as my part of the asset settlement along with the family car.