Sorry to clarify on the night in the week he does have them overnight and take to school the next morning.
I've been very reasonable all the way however his works busiest hours are between 4.30-6.30 and on the Fridays when he has them they are always in late stay which they hate I too work full time but have flexible hours and I have back up in my mum etc he has no family in the area and I just can see the kids being in late stay. Also I offered them to him in April this year when I was away with work and he refused due to work commitments the only thing that has changed recently is my child maintenance has increased as at the time of divorce it went on his very outdated accounts. He has also changed solicitor for no apparent reason and all the threats of court etc started then....Thing is the children have after school activities most of the week on both our times and they constantly come back without school shoes dirty uniforms etc etc it sounds petty but actually they don't want to go an extra night but have said they would go out for tea on a Monday after school thereby the back and forth aspect is not so noticeable however he also turned that down. He is a good dad and loves his kids and they love him however I just feel this is not in the best interest for them maybe when older but at the moment they are not ready for it..Anyway court date is 21st September so I guess ill find out but any other advice would be appreciated.