1 child, boy, 2 nearly 3 years old
husband has him every 3 weeks for 3 nights (husband's parents collect my son as we now live 2 and a half hours away and husband sometimes brings him back or his parents) out of the 3 nights, my husbands parents has my son the first night.
he has had him for a week during summer hols and so has his parents (to help with childcare)
no mediation, he's just threatening to take me to court but I know he will.
no concerns however he listens to his mum rather than me on how to bring noah (son) up
Thank you for the advice!
This custody thing started because I said we would share my son this Christmas, I would have him until lunch and then he would have him from then for a few days. I also said I would meet him half way. I did have him last year over Christmas and boxing day and then he/his parents had Noah for a week. I asked we do it this way for this year, because I was in the middle of moving last Christmas and therefore had no tree or decorations up. I did however state, he could have him next year and thereafter we would take it in turns.
Would I be seen as unreasonable?
I have never stopped them from skyping or similar. and his travel expenses have been included in his child maintenance.
As for when he starts school, how would that work please?
So sharing this year as a one off is ok????
and then I promised him he could have our son next year but he's just being abusive and stating he'll take me to court over and over. also threatened to take me for full custody which as you can understand is quite scary for me. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything right so he won't have a leg to stand on as such .
Thank you for all your answers. I'm very satisfied and very happy to pay.
however I don't want it to come out every month as I don't need anymore advice therefore how do I stop further payments?
thank you x