it started in feb for 1 night every second weekend and next weekend a full day. started in june full weekend
every second Tuesday 4-6, then following weekend fri from 6pm until sun 4pm
hi he is asking for Tuesday overnight every week.i know the law gives fathers their rights but when does the son feelings be considered in all this..
no it hasn't been mentioned by any of the lawyers ,and I didn't know about this and what do I do to go forward with this.I was told maybe to see a phycologist for my son but I don't want him to go through anymore upset with questions and maybe making it more difficult for him .
no never been a report done. the issues with my son has never been mentioned in court just the access .
hi just received a letter from his lawyer on Friday past .I have not acknowledge this yet.
Hi Clare thanks for that advise I will put that forward to his lawyers but I know he will take it to court. should I take my son issue to the lawyers too .
thanks again .I have signed up for a month hopefully I can contact you if I have any further questions
Hi Clare, my sons father is asking for overnights during the week ,if he has this access and every second weekend does this mean he has joint custody and pay less csa monies.im thinking this is the only reason he is doing this .
if I cancel csa monies would this make any difference through court access.
good point never thought that way. does access overnight during the week always be granted or do they consider each case differently
that's reassuring thanks
hi just had a letter from lawyers saying that its going to a proof hearing as ex want to persue one night during the week and now wants 3 weeks at hols etc .I have just explained that my son has not settled but once again he is not listing to this.alos states that I am standing into danger lack of reasonablence.this is very frightening whats does this mean .
Hi Clare, I have received a letter back from exs lawyer.has counted up the hrs he has his son 48+2 and 18 hrs off this is sleeping and this is hardly satisfactory. he is now wanting 3 weeks at holidays and overnight week day.i once again explained how my son is not settling but this again is ignored. he goes on to say about Scottish legal aid boards present policy and that I am standing into danger in respect of reasonableness .this seems very threatening I don't understand this .
hi Clare,its now going to a pre_proof hearing then a proof hearing what advice can you give for this hearing .as they have asked for witnesses is this for how the child has been on overnights ex has a witness his latest ex with his other child can she be actually be a witness.
hi Clare that's been a help and an insight to shared care by reading these studies my child is one of the ones that is not adjusting .he has the signs of attachment ,kicks bites ,doesn't want to do anything or go out.
do I then put this forward to proof hearing ,does a reference from my doctor help in this situation as I have been to her regarding his skin and its stress related.
Hi Clare as my mother is a witness in court regarding my sons visitations as he is not coping and the fathers wants more time.
She is worried what questions they will go into as she's a bit nerves
can you gives some info might help her to cope.
yes we both have .
thanks that will help us both .hopefully it wont go to court waiting to see what happens about proof hearing .
Hi Clare just had a letter to say I have to attend pre proof hearing I understood that it was just the lawyers that attended .will my ex and I both have to answer questions on my son before it goes to court.Can this be resolved before court .sorry to say I don't have much faith in the law as they never seem to listen to what I have to say about my son and every time my ex takes more to the court he gets it ,its my son that's not settling maybe in time he will but not at the present he still getting upset after 11months .can you give any advice to help me deal with this just don't know how to make them listen. thankful for any advice to help me deal with this
Thanks for your support and advice on the matter .ive tried to google Trniders research but not able to find this can you help with this thanks
Cut and paste the link I gave you!