The arrangements were made between the two of us and never taken to court. The agreed schedule has been followed since our separation (almost 4 years) with some flexibility when needed from both sides. I'm finding myself in a very difficult situation because of his new job, he is not able to continue our arrangement and with his decision to see "how it will work out for him" before discussing any further arrangements with regards ***** ***** daughter. My current work and travel commitments are being challenged as it has been arranged based on what has always been agreed and followed. He is not flexible on this, did not ask whether we can work this through and has basically said that he can't commit to anything before he understands the ways of his new work environment - which may also mean he may not even see his daughter during the week. Can he do this? I would like to know whether you can give me any advice on how to handle this please?