2 May 2015, It states that she needs two weeks notice prior to my return home she gets 10 weeks!
It states that I get him over night every other weekend plus on alternate weekends one full day plus Monday and Thursday after school until 530pm. However I only get three weeks leave and away for 10 so this no longer works. Every-time I suggest we improve contact she says refer to court order!
I have asked that I have him Friday after school until 1730 on Sunday for the three weekends I am at home but she says he is too tired after school, this means I never get to take him away or spend one full day and evening with him, he is now 5 and a half years old!
I do get him after school on Mondays and Thursdays for 2.5hrs however I live an hour away.
I have tried everything except dragging it back to court which I did not really want to do.
The caffcass officer said she is not taking it in the context it was made ie: a baseline of where to start and build on, unfortunately it has not built anywhere!
I was going to ask for half of all school holidays. Weekends Friday to Sunday whilst in country plus after school Mondays and Thursdays. In 4.5 years I've only had him once for two overnights!