We jointly own two houses, renting out one and residing in another.
Division of finances will be fought by my very tenacious partner.
My children are all adults, two daughter both married and one disabled son. My concern now is for my children as i am older than my 'spouse' and if I predecease him they will be severely disadvantaged.
Thank you for your response but can I ask one last question please. Would the fact that my husband insists the marriage is kept secret in order not to upset his mother be considered unreasonable conduct?