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Kasare, Solicitor
Category: Family Law
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Experience:  Solicitor, 10 yrs plus experience in civil litigation, employment and family law
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We are in the process of adopting siblings but the older one

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We are in the process of adopting siblings but the older one is demonstrating aggressive and devious behaviour towards the younger one to the point where we fear for her safety. Social workers are doing nothing as care order states they should stay together. We are desperate
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Family Law
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Is there anyone there
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
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Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.
HIThank you for your questionMy name is ***** ***** do my best to help you but I need some further information firstHow old are the children and how long have they been in your care?
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
They are 6&4 and have been with us for 7 months. The older one even climbed a stair gate to hit the younger one after we had put them to bed. We are in the process of adopting them
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.
Have you considered withdrawing from the process?
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
The problem we have is the little one and her will stay together and I worry that her sister will get worse towards her. We have asked to pursue the adoption with the little one but they are saying we have to do both of none.
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.
I understand your deep concerns on the issue.
What support/counselling for the child has been offered?
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
We have asked their social worker to speak to Where the kids came from to see what they offer, I have referred for early family support through school. We have spoken to adoption team "behavioural specialist" but nothing is working for her. Behaviour is escalating rather than getting better.
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.
Have you been referred to CAMHS?I have to ask - will you give up rather than carry on if need be?